Dating on Chatlines is more than what we perceive it. It isn’t merely about two people talking on phone for fun and frolic but the beginning of a relationship that could last longer if advances carefully. You can make Chatline dating a real fun if you follow a few simple yet pertinent points.
Every new thing starts with you, hence, the Chatline dating. The basic problem with many Chatline users is that they don’t know what they really want. Therefore, before dialing your first Chatline number, you should be clear about your preferences.
That really helps as it helps you choose those people who are there with similar dating goals. If it’s your first experience, ask yourself whether you are really ready for it or not. Setting up preferences before starting using a Chatline number really saves your time.
Unless you feel so, don’t take it very seriously. Start gradually and make it get going with a normal pace. Enjoy having friendly and light communication with the person other side.
If the person with whom you’re talking is an easy going person, enjoy the whole process to improve your relationship with him/her. Enjoy meeting new persons Chatline. Don’t hesitate to know them. Keep talking till you develop a cozy bond and comfortable relationship.
There are times when you don’t know what to talk further as you reach at a point of monotony. Don’t worry. Start asking ingesting questions about the person’s hobbies, interests and life goals. It’s great to ask questions. It will not only help you explore more about the person but also keeps the conversation going.
Ask questions, don’t grill. Well, questions help you find more about the person on the other side of the line. Don’t bombard questions. It may send reflection that you’re more like grilling than asking. Ask a slew of enticing questions that engage and delight him/her. Make the person feel comfortable and confident by having a flowing communication that has some meaning. Surprise him/ her with some witty lines like “I had a rough day at work, but you made my day.”
Even a slight tone of compassion and obligation on phoneline will impress your partner. Last, but not the least, avoid chewing gum or food while talking on the phone. You should also avoid checking emails, reading SMSes while talking. Multitasking creates distractions and hence disrupts the communication.